Well hello blog world...

Anyone who knows me knows that I have a lot of opinions, but doesn't everyone? I mean opinions are like assholes and everyone has one, right? Fortunately for me and unfortunately for others I have no problem saying whats on my mind. So let me start this off slow and give you the 411 on me. I am a 33 year old single mom just trying to make it in this big bad world. I work, go to school ( future nurse here), and try to be the best mom possible. Did I mention I also serve on the board of my son's school's P.T.A. Sometimes I surprise myself that I haven't managed to cause myself to have a C.V.A. If you don't know what that means then go look it up. I am high strung and a very black and white person. I hate grey areas! Like I said I have no problem speaking whats on my mind. Sadly my lack of filter can get me in trouble from time to time. Oh well what can I do? I am who I am and if you don't like it then please don't let the door hit you in the rear on your way out. I make no apologies for myself... well that isn't exactly true. Lately I have found myself apologizing more and more but I figured that was a habit I needed to break. I sound like a real doll huh? Surprisingly enough there is a softer and kinder side to me too. I know big shock right! I truely have a heart of gold and would do just about anything for those I love and care about. The one exception would be selling my son. I do have an ex husband that I will give to a horrible... oops did I say that out loud... I mean loving home. I am the person who will see the best in a person even when others or even themselves don't see it. Sometimes it pays off and sometimes it just bites me in the ass. Someone once told me I am a magnet for the emotionally deficient. The sadder their story the more I tend to be attracted to the person, but I am convinced that one of these days I will find that diamond in the rough. Until then it is trial and error with a big emphasis on ERROR. Error is good though because we learn from it. Hmmm I should have my doctorate by now. I am a firm believer that everyone comes into our life for a reason. Some stay and some go, but with each and every person we learn something more about ourselves. I love and collect random quotes and will always try and incorporate one with each new blog entry. Well I think you get the basic drift of who I am, but let me sum it up for you...

1. I have a very big mouth and I am not afraid to use it
2. Piss me off and I will call you out on it faster then you can blink
3. Secretly I am not as hard as I appear ( I have a warm and squishy side too. It is the whole ying and yang thing)
4. If you have a sad story by all means come find me because I am a sucker for poor lost souls

So I think that is all for tonight. On that note I will leave you with the following quote that is quite fitting...

Don't be so quick to judge me. You only see what I choose to show you. You need to take time to get to know me, because truth be told you really don't know anything at all.